Give Thanks
“Let everything that has breath, praise the Lord.” Psalm 150:6 (ESV) This verse has been on a constant repeat in my head this past week.
As we move into the month of November, and the holiday season, let’s take a moment to breathe and reflect on the goodness of God.
I know we are all dealing with personal issues, but if we stop for a moment, and just meditate on the blessings God has given us, everything falls into focus.
But what if my manuscript is rejected? How can I be thankful for a rejection from my dream publisher? Or worse yet, your small publisher goes out of business? This happened to me at the end of October, needless to say, I was blindsided, but God has a plan for me and my stories.
Believe me, I’ve had quite a few rejections and to see that “thanks, but no thanks” email cuts.
No one likes to receive rejections. You’ve poured your heart and soul into your story. You’ve edited, perhaps even paid an editor to help you polish your manuscript. Had others look over your story. Even sent it off to a critique group.
The hardest part for me is the waiting. And when you finally receive a response from the publisher, editor or agent, you see those dreaded words, “it’s not what we’re looking for.”
It’s disheartening, to say the least. So how do I handle rejection?
- I will respond with a thank you email, if possible. I let them know that I appreciate their time in giving me feedback.
- Read the feedback with an open mind. Sometimes tough things need to be said. I don’t like it and neither do you, but we must accept the constructive criticism for what it is. It’s necessary for me to grow as a writer.
- Pray over your story. Maybe the Lord wants you to put this story aside for now. If not, work to make it better. Take the suggestions to heart and see what needs to be changed.
- Don’t give up.
- Find a writers group in your area. Even though writing is a solitary occupation, we all need connection with others.